Wednesday, September 21, 2011

#11- Rewards

Posted by shannan at 6:38 AM 0 comments

You may have noticed there is a lot of questioning over the concept of rewards in children’s ministry. Some say yes because God rewards us, and some say no because it doesn’t create an impact on the heart just on the habits.

I think Rewards do have a place, but they need to have a purpose. I do not consistently reward for things I expect of a student such as listening to the listen, being nice to others, or participating in worship. We do reward for things that are “extra” based on their age. For example, Preschoolers get a sticker or small toy for brining their bible, but once they are in kindergarten, they are expected to bring their bible and they get no prize for this.

Another thing I reward for is memorization. We have a memory verse for Sunday morning and then we also do memory work on Wednesday nights. We have a prize bucket with little knick-knacks from oriental trading company. They are little things that will probably get lost or broken before the next Sunday comes. Part of this is so I know they will need to keep working on the memory work to have a prize.

On Wednesday night though we have flair. I give students a list of 25 verse that go with our series and for ever 5 verses they get a small button. Kids go crazy over collecting, and this is no different. All the kids work to get them all and some actually get them all. We also have a bonus flair that they can earn by memorizing a large chunk of scripture I give them (this semester is the Ephesians 6:10-18) and then they also get a piece of flair for perfect prepared attendance (they have to bring their folder and bible when they come). Not only are my kids getting into this but my leaders all as well. It a race to see who can collect the most, and as such our kids are getting learning to hide God’s word in their heart.

The important thing, I think with rewards is to make sure that you don’t reward for everything, and don’t reward to prevent bad behavior but to enforce spiritual practices and remind the kids that this is something God wants them to do, not just to gain a prize, but to gain a treasure that will live forever.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Free Materials

Posted by shannan at 7:43 PM 0 comments

Part of my hope with this blog is to share materials. So today I want to share the basic of our curriculum.

I write our curriculum in house and right now I am working on a 4 year rotating curriculum that will be for K-3rd grade. The following is the breakdowns of what I have so far:

Year 1- Beginning to David

Year 2- Jesus’ Life

Year 3- the two kingdoms to rebuilding of Jerusalem

Year 4- The beginning of the church

Eventually there will be a 4th and 5th grade curriculum and then Wednesday night materials that correlate to what they learn on Sunday. It’s a lot to take on, and will take time, but when it’s done it will hopefully be something any church can use and make sure the kids get through all the main stories of the bible.

As of right now I have Year one complete and am working on an easy way to share with anyone that is interested. If you have any questions or requests, let me know.

Preschool isn’t my forte, so I don’t know that I’ll ever write material for that age, but we use Elevate Jr. and after next year will have enough material to start rotating it through.

Hopefully this is the first of much help to come, and if there is something specifically that would help you let me know and I’ll pass on what I can.

Friday, September 16, 2011

#9- Go Fish and Denver and the Mile High Orchestra

Posted by shannan at 8:06 PM 0 comments

So, you may not know this about me, but I’m a huge Go Fish fan. I’ve liked them since infection, one of their adult CDs, and I’ve successfully hooked most of my families on their kid’s music. That’s why as soon as I saw they were producing a cd with Denver and the Mile High Orchestra, I knew I had to check it out.

The cd came in the mail this week, and I’ve been jamming to it. I was very happy to see that one of my favorite songs from childhood is on there “I am a promise” and I might even try to get that one into our worship rotation. It has a nice Big Band sound, which also pulls childhood memories as we were big Glen Miller listeners. I think it’s a nice change that kids don’t hear a lot of, and I’m going to sample it next Sunday with the kids to see what they think.

All I can say, is if you haven’t checked out what Go Fish is doing, stop everything to do so, because they have God pushing them to places that haven’t been explored. And that’s what’s great about the whole process; they really just want to spread the Gospel in a fun way. Check out the site www.gofishguys.com to catch up on everything that’s Go Fish.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Worry Free Worship

Posted by shannan at 8:14 PM 0 comments
When was the last time you attended worship? Not when was the last time you were with people worshiping, but when was the last time you were worshiping. I know that as a children's minister I have the tendency to let the ministry control my mind on Sundays. Because of this, I am not always worshiping even though I give that appearance. And before we started an 8:00 service, I didn't attend at all.

Tonight I attended the David Crowder concert. And the nicest thing about it was that I got to worship without a radio bud in my ear, or one eye on the paging system, or the worry that someone was texting to let me know they wouldn't be there to teach. I got to go to worry free worship.

Now I know that isn't available consistently, even at our 8:00 service there is a nursery I have in the back of my mind during church, but it is important to have these moments of uninhibited worship. Even if it means taking a mini vacation once a quarter to a church with Saturday night service or going to a conference that just never seemed to be a priority, worry free worship is an important part of our spiritual health as a person, and as a minister.

So when is your next worship session?

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

#8- Planning Center

Posted by shannan at 1:37 PM 0 comments

I don’t know if you've heard of planning center, or if you’ve ever used it, but I don’t know if I could get through a week without it. It is the perfect way to organize a service. I currently use it for Preschool and Elementary. I have three guest log-ons that all my leaders have so they can get on to get an materials they may need or just see what the order of service is. We print this out as well and it has all the introductions my hosts need for games, teach times, sword drills or any other information they may need. It really is one of the best way we spend money to keep everyone informed. And they have different prices- even a free level. We currently have the Basic plan, more out of storage space than anything else. We don’t use the site to the full extent we could- such as music and video uploads, and even emailing people to schedule them. But for now, we use what we can. I highly recommend checking it out and seeing if it will help you organize a service. I've put what a service looks like for us below, and how it prints.

Elementary
Jesus Changes EverythingSeptember 18, 2011Growing Up Lesson 3

09/18

9:30a
09/18
11:00a
Length
in mins
Notes
Pre-Service
9:15a10:45a15:00Hangout time
Service
9:30a11:00a10:00LG Activity/ Small Groups
Steal It

either do two lines facing each other, or do four lines if necessarily that form a box facing in. Go down each line giving each kid a number so that each line has the same numbers. When you call a number, such as 2, the first "2" to run and and trade one of their shoes for the shoe in the middle wins that race, first team to switch out all of their shoes wins the game.
9:40a11:10a1:00Enter Large Groups
9:41a11:11a5:00Welcome/Offering
Announcements

Trunk or Treat is coming up. We're doing this instead of pumpkin patch bash. But there will still be candy, and hayrides, and popcorn, and bouncy houses. So when you leave today, grab two postcards- one for your fridge and one for a Friend. We want you to bring as many friends as you can so this can be the best event ever!

Offering
Alright, Who can tell me what the difference is between an offering and a tithe? (allow response) I know it’s a tricky little thing right? Well in the bible other Christians give us the example of giving 10% of what we earn to God as a way to say thank you. And Offering is giving even more than that like 20 or 30 percent of what you have because God has blessed you so much. So think about this as you put your tithe or offering in the bucket.
9:46a11:16a10:00Marble Count
Point for every bible
Point and prize for knowing memory verse

And a voice from heaven said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.” Matthew 3:17

Point for being a new person or visitor
Point for a family member serving
Point and Prize for a signed backseat breakdown
9:56a11:26a1:30Have Student Pray for Teach Time
9:57:30a11:27:30a10:00Teach Time
10:07:30a11:37:30a4:00Worship Song 1
Stories

This song is a great one that teaches us about two people in the bible- Zacchaeus and David. This song reminds us that there are awesome stories in the bible, which is the book that God gave us. So think about that while we sing.
10:11:30a11:41:30a4:00Worship Song 2
10 commandment boogie

Hey Guys This song called the 10 commandment boogie, and we’re learning the 10 commandments. The 10 commandments were the rules that God gave his people to live a long and happy life. He knew that if they followed these rules that life would be a lot better for them, and that’s what God wants for each of us. So think about that while we sing.
10:15:30a11:45:30a4:00Worship Song 3/Communion
you gave your life away

This is our slow song today, and the title says exactly why we’re here right now, because Jesus gave his life away. He didn’t have to because he never did anything wrong, he was perfect. But he loved us so much that he decided to die in our place, so that we could live forever in heaven with him. All we have to do is admit that we sin and decide that we want to stop living life our way and let Jesus be in charge of our life. So if you’ve made this decision and been baptized to show everyone that you’ve made this decision, you can take communion in the back of the room when the song starts. Everyone else can sit quietly and follow along with the motions, or you can pray or read your bible, but remember that you’re completely focusing on God so move away from anyone that may distract you.
10:19:30a11:49:30a5:00Sword Drills
Point and prize for winning sword drill

Romans 12:2
2 cor 3:18
philp 3:21
2 cor 5:17
10:24:30a11:54:30a3:00Count Marbles
10:27:30a11:57:30a1:00Exit To Small Groups
10:28:30a11:58:30a15:00LG Activity/ Small groups
Work on putting motions to memory verse.
Post-Service
10:43:30a12:13:30p73:30

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

5yo and Kindergarten- where do they belong

Posted by shannan at 1:44 PM 0 comments

Age breakdowns can be a headache. At my last church you had to calculate when a child would go to kindergarten to know what class they would be in, which I never quite understood and always had to have help from an Admin. Kindergarten can be one of the most difficult ages in the breakdown of a children’s ministry because they can’t read so they don’t quite fit with elementary, but they are also too old for preschool. So where do you put them?

In my current ministry the 5 year olds and kindergarten are fully apart of the elementary ministry. I’ve had them as part of Preschool, and I’ve also had 5 year olds as part of preschool with kindergarten as a transition year in their own room. But the way we currently have them has been my favorite.

The biggest reason is because you don’t have to transition an entire class at once. Instead of having 10 kids to teach how everything runs in the elementary service (something that can take up to 3 months), you have one student at a time learning what is expected and how to operate in the Elementary service and they learn classroom structure from the kindergarteners that are already in there. It goes much smoother. This also allows you time to talk with Mom and Dad when their birthday comes up as to what will change. Such as our students have a take home sheet that they can get a prize for if they bring it back completed once they get to the elementary service. The other small reason I like it is that no calendar math is required. I never have to figure out when a child enters kindergarten, because they are already in the class.

Age groupings can be tricky, and some of it depends on your school system and your kids. But think outside the box and figure out what is truly the best option for your kids, rather than you’ve always done it this way. You never know if there’s a better way until you try.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Knowing when to give up

Posted by shannan at 11:11 AM 0 comments

If you’re anything like me, I like to plan. I like to know what is going on, and to be prepared, at least with the big picture, a month or more in advance. Right now, I've almost got the scope and sequence for my next year in place (September to August). But one thing I've finally learned over my 4 years of full time ministry is that sometime you have to give up.

For example, I love to write. Most of the curriculum I use is stuff I've written. But two weeks ago we moved our entire children’s ministry into a brand new facility, which required a lot of prep work. So for the past month, if it wasn't already written, we did a video from LiveChurch.tv. Their bottom lines weren't exactly what I wanted to teach with the bible stories we were covering, but the only other option was losing my mind, and most likely developing an ulcer. So I gave up my idea of perfect for what was perfect enough. And no one knew the difference.

Something that is important to realize in any ministry, and maybe more-so in children’s ministry is that sometimes less than perfect, is perfect. My kids never knew the difference that the bottom line wasn't what I had planned a year ago. And actually a couple parents commented on the changed topic in positive light. Not only this, giving up my planned perfect gave me the chance to minister to more people and interact with more of my leaders than I would have had time for if I had still tried to write all of my own lessons.

Sometimes you have to give up. Have you ever given up?

 

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